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Robert Frederick Goss Sr
&
Sarah F. Williams


My great-grandfather, Robert Frederick Goss Sr., was born  November 8, 1854 in Missouri. He was the son of Jesse S. Goss
(Jan 23, 1829 - Apr 12, 1901) of North Carolina and Sarah Small.  The family moved to Missouri before 1860.

R. F. Goss is living with his father and stepmother in the 1870 Greene County Missouri census. By 1880 he is living with Reverend Constantine Dryden as a boarder and farm laborer in the 1880 Grayson County Texas census. On June 20, 1880, R. F. Goss married Sarah F. Williams in Whitesboro.  Reverend Constantine Dryden, Methodist, performed the ceremony.

I have copies of the family Bible that they started on their wedding day June 20th 1880. The Bible is over 100 years old and falling apart. It was in the possession of a distant family member who is now deceased. The images are at the bottom of this page.

Robert Frederick Goss is listed in the 1900 Grayson County, Texas census as a railroad flagman. He and Sarah F. are listed with their children: Jessie James (Nov 18, 1883 - Dec 15 1910); Frances Elizabeth (Mar 21 1888 - Jul 11 1960); Hester Ann (Feb 20 1892 - Apr 5 1967); Arvin (Feb 15 1896 - Apr 7 1943); Charles Calvert (Feb 10 1899 - June 6 1900). Another child not listed in the census was Exeyodus (May 14 1893 - Jan 8 1894).

My grandfather, Robert Arvin Goss, was always called by his middle name Arvin.

Robert Frederick Goss died April 12, 1901 in a tragic train accident in Denison.

Sunday Gazetteer
Apr 14, 1901

MET A HORRIBLE FATE
Flagman Goss is killed at the Main Street crossing.
R. F. Goss, The M K and T flagman of the Main Street crossing, was run over and killed Friday at 3:30 p.m. by switch engine No. 31, in charge of Engineer sales. No two persons ever see an accident alike and there are several versions of just how
it happened. Several eye witnesses state that a party of ladies had left the depot platform to cross the tracks. A switch engine was moving near the crossing and Goss advanced to give them warning. He was so intent on watching the ladies that he did not see a switch engine which was coming on the track on which he was standing. The engineer supposed of course that the flagman would step to one side as he had done a hundred times. But he did not move and was crushed and mangled to death, his body being literally cut into fine particles and strung along the rails for a distance of 25 yards. After the accident the remains were put into a sack and carried to the M K and T freight depot.

The deceased has been here for a number of years employed at the freight department. When Jimmy Cater went to the hospital at Sedatis, Goss took his place. He was a man about 40 years of age, and leaves a wife and four children to mourn his untimely fate.

Sarah F. Small Goss died Mar 6, 1915 in Denison of pneumonia. In the 1910 census she was working as a laborer at the cotton mill. Also shown in the 1910 census is my grandfather, Robert Arvin Goss, working in the cotton mill as a spinner at the age of 14.

Jesse James Goss was not named after the outlaw Jesse James, but rather after his grandfathers, Jesse S. Goss and James F. Williams. He worked as a boiler maker and married Mabel Irene Fowler in 1908. He committed suicide on December 15, 1910 by gunshot in Amarillo, Texas. His younger brother,  Robert Arvin Goss (my grandfather) traveled from Denison to Amarillo, retrieving Jesse's body, signing the death certificate, and taking him back to Denison for burial at Oakwood. 

Goss family members Robert Frederick, Sarah F., Jesse James, and Charles Calvert are all buried at Oakwood Cemetery
in Denison, Texas. The headstone is very old and hard to read, but parts of names and dates can still be read.

My grandfather, Robert Arvin Goss, was born in Denison on February 15, 1896. He was only 5 years old when his father died in the train accident. In 1914 he joined the Navy at Dallas, Texas. He was 18 years old, 5' 5' tall, weighed 125 lbs, and had a tattoo "A. G. star 1911".  "A. G." stands for Arvin Goss. I do not know what the star and 1911 symbolize. He lists his address as still being Route #5 Denison. He stayed in the Navy until his death in San Diego Navy hospital on April 7, 1943. He is buried at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.

Robert Arvin Goss and Laura Hill Scarborough of Alba, Texas married on December 29, 1919. Laura was born May 2, 1900 and died in 1981. They moved back and forth from Denison to San Diego, CA until about 1936 when they made San Diego their permanent home.

Their children were:
Robert Arvin Goss Jr.: August 2, 1923 - March 24, 1994
Harold Douglas Goss: August 1, 1925  -  ca 1995
Helen Louise Goss: July 8, 1935 - living
James Ferrel Goss: August 10, 1938 - living.


L-R: Robert Arvin Goss Jr., Laura Hill Scarborough Goss, Harold Douglas Goss
ca 1930

My father, Robert Arvin Goss Jr. was born in San Diego and, except for the moves to/from Denison as a child, lived in
San Diego all of his life.
He served in the U. S. Army during World War II. He married Rose Alvarado in 1946. They had
two daughters: Anita Rose and Roberta Linn. The name Robert was passed from generation to generation ending with
me, Roberta.


    
ca 1943


 
R. F. Goss & Sara F. Williams








This Certifies that the rite of Holy Matrimony
was celebrated between
R. F.Goss of Whitesboro, Tex. and Sara F. Williams of Whitesboro, Tex.
on June 20th 1880 at Whitewboro, Tex.
by Rev. C. Dryden, MG






Sara F. Williams and R. F. Goss was married June 20th 1880
by Rev. C. Dryden, Methodist Preacher
in the town of Whitesboro, Tex.
on Sunday Nine O'Clock.






Fannie _ Goss and Bart W. Finley was married
on Sunday, Dec 7th, 1902
by Rev. M. B. Carnes of Denison, Tex.
Sunday 12 A.M.


Illegible





Jessie James Goss and Mary Irene _Fowler
was married July 20, 1908













R. F. Goss born  8 Nov 1854
Jessie James Goss born 18 Nov 1883
Zoe Elizabeth Finley born 27 Apr 1904
Francis Elizabeth Goss born 21 Mar 1888
Hester  Ann Goss born 20 Feb 1892
Exeyodus born 14 May 1893
Arvin Goss born 15 Feb 1896
Charles Calvert Goss born 19 Feb 1899
James Miner Goss born 30 Jan 1910
Hellen Louise Goss born 8 Jul __35
R. A. Jr. born 8 __ 23
H. D. Goss born 2 Aug '27
John James Finley born 10 Feb 1907
Curtis Trenchard Flewelen born 22 Nov 1914
Mary Elizabeth Finley born 24 Sep 1927















Robert F. Goss died 12 Apr 1901, age 47
Exeyodus Goss died 8 Jan 1894
Charles Calvert Goss died 6 Jun 1900
Robert F. Goss was killed 12 Apr 1901, age 47
Jessie Francis Goss died 15 Dec 1910
Sarah Francis Goss died 6 Mar 1915
Zoe Elizabeth Finley died 27 Nov 1918
Frances Elizabeth Flewellen died 11 Jul 1961
contributor of Bible pages unknown
 








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