Whiting
~ Dugan
Frederick
Parker Whiting
1814 - 1846
Frederick Parker Whiting was born 10
June 1814 in Union, Maine, the son of John Whiting and
Nancy Lowell.
Frederick grew up in a family of eight boys and three girls, but he was
the only son who ended up in Texas. He had a brother who was
lost
at sea, three brothers headed for California, and another left home for
Florida. His other siblings remained near home in
Maine. Frederick's
paternal ancestors go back to the emigrant, Nathaniel Whiting, who was
a landowner in Lynn, MA, in 1638. His mother's family goes
back to
Percival Lowell, the emigrant, who sailed for America in 1639 and
settled
in Newbury, MA.
Frederick,
a handsome young man, arrived in Houston, Texas, around 1840.
In 1844, Frederick Whiting met the
Dugan boys, George and Henry Dugan, sons of Daniel and Catharine
(Vaden)
Dugan, who were in Houston to pick up a shipload of horses.
When George
and Henry left Houston, Frederick agreed to help them herd the horses
cross-country
to north Texas.
Once Frederick
met Emily, sister of the Dugan boys, he knew he would stay in
Texas.
On 19 April 1845 Frederic Parker Whiting and Emily Dugan were
married.
They made their home near old Fort Warren, which was near the Dugan
land grant
in Fannin County, now Grayson County.
But their
life together was all too brief. Their only child, George Dugan
Frederick
Whiting, was born 13 March 1846. Before little
George was ten months old,
both Emily and Frederick had died of "lung fever," likely
flu. Both
were buried in the Dugan Cemetery, at Dugan Chapel. Their
marriage
and deaths were neatly entered in the Dugan family Bible.
Brick and cement
was used to erect a cover for each grave, and each was embossed with
initials
of the deceased.
More durable
gravestones were placed there about 1925 by their son, George Dugan
Frederick
Whiting, and a grandson, Claude Vernon Whiting. (Both George
and
Claude Whiting were born and died on the Dugan homestead.)
The cemetery,
which is located in a pasture behind the original Dugan homestead, was
begun as an Indian burying ground and then used by as a family plot.
But
as time went by, hundreds of other people were buried there. Many were
Indians, some neighbors, and some just people passing through the
country.
The Dugan home became known as Dugan Chapel because that was where
church
was held when the Methodist circuit-rider preacher arrived.
Soon after
learning of the birth of a grandson in Texas, Frederick's parents in
Maine
received a letter from Daniel and Katharine Dugan, telling them about
and
the death of their son. Mail was slow, but finally a response
to
the Dugan's letters came. The Whitings sent an oil-painted
miniature
portrait of Frederick to be given to their grandson so that he could
know
his father in some small way. They also sent along a request
that
the child be named for his father. The Dugan grandparents
satisfied
the name request by adding the name Frederick; thus, George Dugan
Frederick
Whiting.
Later the
church held in the Dugan home merged with the newer settlers from
Virginia
to form the Virginia Point Methodist Church, which is considered one of
the oldest churches in Texas, and bears the Texas State Historical
Seal.
Frederick and Emily's son was the first child baptized in this church,
back when it was held in his grandparent's home.
George Whiting
grew up in the home of his maternal grandparents, the Dugans.
On
the 1850 Grayson County Census, he
is listed as a four-year-old, born in
Texas. On the 1870 Grayson County census, he is listed as a
24 year
old merchant living in the household of W. P. Dugan, which should have
read H. P. Dugan. By 1870, Daniel and Catharine Dugan were
deceased,
and H. P. (Henry) Dugan, their son was listed as head of the family.
In 1841
Emily's brother, Daniel Vaden Dugan, and his friend, William Kitchings,
were killed and scalped by Indians as they cut logs in the woods.
As the
young men were buried in the pasture behind the Dugan home, Catherine,
Emily's sister, vowed that she would avenge her brother's death.
The chance
came a few weeks later. Emily and Catherine were home alone,
as it
was the middle of the day and the rest of the family were away from the
house. The girls heard a turkey call, again and
again. By looking
out the peepholes in the door, they saw an Indian bobbing up and down
in
the yard between the house and the barn. The girls
ran for
the guns and took careful aim. One, or both, got off a true
shot;
and the Indian fell dead. They pulled his body to the chopping block
and
cut off his head with the ax.
The
head was nailed to their gatepost to warn other Indians to keep
away. Later the skull was attached
to the top of the spinning wheel.
In the book,
"Indian Depredations in Texas" by Wilbarger, there is an account of
Dugan
family's covered wagon trip to Texas in 1836, with Emily as a young
girl
of fourteen. Frederick had come down the Mississippi by boat.
He was likely not much of a "drover,"
but he did make it by horseback from Houston northward to the old
Warren
on Red River.
George was
reared by his grandparents, Daniel and Catharine Dugan, and his uncles,
Henry and George Dugan. He grew
to six feet four, and continued to reside
on the land the Dugan family received in their Republic of Texas land
grant.
He was given his mother's share by a deed dated 11 March 1857
(Vol. H,
p 403 Grayson Co., TX) and signed by Daniel and Catharine Dugan for the
consideration "of the love and affection that we have for George D.F.
Whiting,
our grandson, and only heir of his mother, Emily Whiting, our daughter,
deceased." George (G.D.F.) Whiting and Henry Dugan
continued to make
their homes together until George married 19 December 1870.
They
were in the merchandising business near Old Warren (now Ambrose) for a
time, but both were more into farming and ranching most of their lives.
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George Dugan Fredrick Whiting |
Mollie Inge Fitzgerald Whiting |
Being reared
in the same home gave them stronger than usual ties. Also,
they married
cousins who were about the same age. Henry married Ann Eliza Spotts and
George married Mollie Inge Fitzgerald. George and Mollie were
parents of
eight and grandparents of sixteen. Henry and Ann Eliza had no
children.
George was Henry's only heir.
The miniature
portrait of Frederick sparked me to find out more about this mysterious
ancestor who came to Texas and died so soon afterwards.
Frederick
Parker
Whiting died 24 December 1846, aged thirty-two. His wife,
Emily (Dugan)
Whiting, died 19 December 1846, aged twenty-four.
Compiled by:
Lora B. Tindall
Dugan/Whiting Cemetery at Dugan
Chapel marking the graves of
Emily and Frederick Whiting, Emily's sister Mary (Dugan ) Montague and
her two children. Mary was the wife of Daniel Montague. Around the stone
are fifth generation Whiting descendants.
Sources:
RESEARCH LOG: Vital Records,
Union,
ME 1794-1910 LDS FHL Film 0012229 Item 1 p 16; Tombstone readings from
Indian Cemetery, Dugan Chapel Located ca 5 miles north of Bells, TX;
Whiting/Dugan
Family Bible; Grayson Co., TX, land deeds (Deed from Dugans to grandson
G.D.F. Whiting); Known Marriages of Fannin Co., TX, 1838-1852 by
Patricia
A. Newhouse, p 6, marriage records (Frederic and Emily-1845); Daughters
of Republic of Texas--Lora Byrd Whiting Tindall, #14836-Sup#16290-S; VA
Point Church History from newspaper articles; Original Republic of
Texas
Landgrant #486, Vol. 4, dated 7 Dec. 1845, signed Anson Jones,
president,
recorded Grayson County, TX, 5 March 1888 at 5 p.m. in Vol. 74, p 629
Record
of Deeds; Indian Depredations in TX (1890) by Wilbarger PP 379-387 and
PP 405-422; Annals of Warren, ME, by Cyrus Eaton (1877) PP 645-646;
History
of Grayson Co., TX by Grayson Co. Frontier Village, Inc.(1979) Vol. I,
PP 696-697; Daniel & Catharine (Vaden) Dugan Family Bible notes
as
copied by Lida Webster Dugan, who died 23 Dec 1945; Hand painted
miniature
portrait of Frederick Parker Whiting in possession of Lora B. Tindall
2002
Biography Index
Susan Hawkins
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